Saturday, March 15, 2008

A letter from Tucker to Oklahoma Rep. Sally Kern

Hopefully, all of you have had the opportunity to hear the words of Oklahoma Rep. Sally Kern. She's the one that recently made the comment "I honestly think it's (homosexuality) the biggest threat our nation has, even more so than terrorism or Islam." She also seems to think we're going after young children and that we're infiltrating city councils. These are only a few of her recent comments speaking before a conservative Republican group in January. She thought nobody would hear what she had to say about gays but her words were secretly recorded by a member of the Gay and Lesbian Victory Fund. Now her horrific comments are out there for the world to hear.

It's really sad that this woman is able to hold an elected office when she clearly is incapable of representing everyone in her district. I should note that, so far, she has refused to apologize for her comments.

If you haven't has chance to listen to her words, here ya go. It's really quite scary to think that these are the words of a leader. After watching the video, keep reading and you'll hear the most amazing reply anyone could have given her. The letter is reportedly written by a high school senior who lost his mother in the Oklahoma City bombing. I could never find such wise words as he. I'll let him speak for himself.



The following letter has been posted on numerous sites and can be found, along with info on it's origins, at Pam's House Blend.

Rep Kern:

On April 19, 1995, in Oklahoma City a terrorist detonated a bomb that killed my mother and 167 others. 19 children died that day. Had I not had the chicken pox that day, the body count would've likely have included one more. Over 800 other Oklahomans were injured that day and many of those still suffer through their permanent wounds.

That terrorist was neither a homosexual or was he involved in Islam. He was an extremist Christian forcing his views through a body count. He held his beliefs and made those who didn't live up to them pay with their lives.

As you were not a resident of Oklahoma on that day, it could be explained why you so carelessly chose words saying that the homosexual agenda is worst than terrorism. I can most certainly tell you through my own experience that is not true. I am sure there are many people in your voting district that laid a loved one to death after the terrorist attack on Oklahoma City. I kind of doubt you'll find one of them that will agree with you.

I was five years old when my mother died. I remember what a beautiful, wise, and remarkable woman she was. I miss her. Your harsh words and misguided beliefs brought me to tears, because you told me that my mother's killer was a better person than a group of people that are seeking safety and tolerance for themselves.

As someone left motherless and victimized by terrorists, I say to you very clearly you are absolutely wrong.

You represent a district in Oklahoma City and you very coldly express a lack of love, sympathy or understanding for what they've been through. Can I ask if you might have chosen wiser words were you a real Oklahoman that was here to share the suffering with Oklahoma City? Might your heart be a bit less cold had you been around to see the small bodies of children being pulled out of rubble and carried away by weeping firemen?

I've spent 12 years in Oklahoma public schools and never once have I had anyone try to force a gay agenda on me. I have seen, however, many gay students beat up and there's never a day in school that has went by when I haven't heard the word **** slung at someone. I've been called gay slurs many times and they hurt and I am not even gay so I can just imagine how a real gay person feels. You were a school teacher and you have seen those things too. How could you care so little about the suffering of some of your students?

Let me tell you the result of your words in my school. Every openly gay and suspected gay in the school were having to walk together Monday for protection. They looked scared. They've already experienced enough hate and now your words gave other students even more motivation to sneer at them and call them names. Afterall, you are a teacher and a lawmaker, many young people have taken your words to heart. That happens when you assume a role of responsibility in your community. I seriously think before this week ends that some kids here will be going home bruised and bloody because of what you said.

I wish you could've met my mom. Maybe she could've guided you in how a real Christian should be acting and speaking.

I have not had a mother for nearly 13 years now and wonder if there were fewer people like you around, people with more love and tolerance in their hearts instead of strife, if my mom would be here to watch me graduate from high school this spring. Now she won't be there. So I'll be packing my things and leaving Oklahoma to go to college elsewhere and one day be a writer and I have no intentions to ever return here. I have no doubt that people like you will incite crazy people to build more bombs and kill more people again. I don't want to be here for that. I just can't go through that again.

You may just see me as a kid, but let me try to teach you something. The old saying is sticks and stones will break your bones, but words will never hurt you. Well, your words hurt me. Your words disrespected the memory of my mom. Your words can cause others to pick up sticks and stones and hurt others.

Sincerely

Tucker

2 comments:

Donvila said...

Hi,
I found this on a Michigan forum...WOOD-TV Grand Rapids and Michigan. It was posted by Elizabeth from Oklahoma City. An Elizabeth from Oklahoma City also posted the original Tucker letter. I was on that board when the original letter was posted. I copied it and emailed everywhere that night. I can only hope that I assisted in getting his touching letter read. Hate is hate, no matter who spews it. Update I found below:

http://www.topix.com/forum/source/wood/TSG5B8P35IEIR7IMS/p122

From Elizabeth, Oklahoma City, OK

Wednesday Mar 12
I want to thank the kind words that you have given my nephew Tucker about his letter. I want to thank the person who published it on its own website at http://www.geocities.com/lettertosallykern/

The letter is gaining national attention. Tucker was contacted by producers from the Ellen show wanting him to come on the show and read his letter in front of a national audience, since Kern has barred the delivery of the letter to her office. So please be watching for that


(sent to me by email)

fake consultant said...

somebody help me out here...is the catholic church part of the homosexual agenda--or a taoist organization stealthily promoting the duality of man?

i'm so confused.